Friday, May 13, 2011

Feeling Extremely Down...

These past few days I have been extremely down, for a bunch of different reasons. The first reason I would guess is finals. I am not one to stress out or be worried, I just dont like them. The second reason is the MG website. I had my feelings hurt on there these past three days like craaazy. There are a few girls who seem to take joy out of hurting other ones, and I just feel like they are ruining the website. Also, the fact that Jordan has 15 more months is KILLING ME. I never thought I could be this weak! I have always been the strong one in my family, but I just cant seem to handle this anymore. The mother's day convo was great, but now im trying to recover haha. Good thing I love the fact that he is serving our Lord, or else this would be unbearable. I know I will probably snap out of this soon...everyone pray I do!

4 comments:

  1. Nobody is getting joy from hurting other ones. All of us girls have opinions, and neither is right or wrong. Even someone like me, who does have a strong opinion in one direction, doesn't not support the others in their decisions. Things got a little heated on the page the other day, mostly because a lot of girls were getting defensive when they shouldn't have been. The group has also been extremely whiny lately, which has affected everyone's mood as well. There are plenty of supportive people on the site. None of us would be on the site if we weren't feeling some of the same things you're feeling regarding our boys being gone for two years. Don't take everything anyone says personally. Just because they don't agree with your opinions sometimes doesn't mean they hate you, nor does it mean they don't support you. It's time to move on now. I know I have. I hope you'll do the same. <3

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  2. The group has felt pretty sad lately. And it's true, some girls get a bit too defensive. I just stop looking at the page on days like that because it's not worth me getting in a bad mood. I'm sorry your feelings got hurt :( I think sometimes girls don't realize what they say, or how it will effect other people. Just keep your head up :) Remember that we can't have some of the amazing/happy days without having some not so great ones. It just means that more amazing days are ahead :)

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  3. yup you are so righ desiree!! i hate when they get too defensive/opinionated its so irritating! but thanks for the cheering up :)

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  4. Aw, I've noticed that with the group as well. Comparing it to how it was 10 months ago when I first joined... it's completely different! I hope it goes back to the way it was because I want this to continue to support me for the next 13 months:) Don't let it get to you Katy! Just rmeember the girls in there that are actually helping you get through the waiting process:)) Those are the ones who matter in the MG group!

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